Have you ever followed someone you love into something scary?
I did.
I'm just an ordinary girl.
Like many people, I enjoy going to beautiful places
and taking photos.
I like peaceful trips, not the kind
that makes me tired or scared.
But my husband is different.
He loves adventure.
He enjoys challenging himself.
One day, he told me, let's go to Cong Collapse, the biggest
sinkhole in Vietnam.
Let's do it before we have a baby.
At first, I laughed.
I said, that sounds dangerous.
But deep inside, I was also curious.
I wanted to try something new, even if it scared me.
So I said, OK.
That was the beginning of my adventure.
The journey had many challenges.
We walked for hours through the jungle.
My legs were tired.
My back was sore.
Sometimes, I felt like I couldn't go on.
I had many fears, fear of heights, fear of darkness.
I even thought, why did I say yes to this?
One time, we had to swim through a dark cave.
It was so dark, and we had to follow each other in a line.
Suddenly, I couldn't see my husband.
He was too far ahead.
I got scared and started calling out, honey, where are you?
I'm scared.
My voice echoed through the cave.
Until now, people in the team still laugh and tease me
about that moment.
But for me, the rope descent was the scariest part.
Standing at the edge, my heart was racing.
I almost cried.
I couldn't even look down.
I was too scared.
I took a deep breath.
I repeated to myself, calm down.
You can do this.
At that moment, I realized something.
I had a choice, to turn back or overcome fear to keep going.
I chose to keep going, not because I wasn't scared,
but because I didn't want fear to win.
Then I stepped into position and started the descent.
Fear and excitement mixed inside me.
I felt the space around me in a way I had never felt before.
Step by step, I followed the safety team's instructions.
Slowly, I started to feel more confident
and controlled my pace.
Then a strange joy filled my mind.
It makes me remember the song, I Believe I Can Fly.
In that moment, I felt like I had truly overcome myself.
Step by step, I started to believe in myself.
I looked at the giant sinkhole.
It was scary, but also beautiful.
I felt small, but also free.
In that moment, I forgot my fear.
I began to enjoy everything around me.
I immersed myself in nature.
I listened to the birds, the wind, and the water.
Nature made me feel peaceful and strong.
I learned I don't have to be perfect or brave all the time.
Just take one step at a time.
That's how I found a new version of myself, a braver me,
a calmer me.
After the trip, I looked back and smiled.
I didn't give up.
I faced my fear.
I did something I never thought I could do.
This journey taught me what really matters.
It's not comfort.
It's growth.
It's courage.
It's sharing life with the people I love.
You don't need to be fearless.
You just need brave to take the first step.
Sometimes the hardest road leads to the most beautiful place.
So if a girl can scream, honey, in a dark cave
and still finish the journey, then trust me,
you can do anything too.
You can cry, but don't stop.
I think if my husband ever asks me
to go on an adventure trip again,
even if I'm still scared, I'll say yes.
Now I ask you, what is one challenge
you can take one brave step toward today?